So i was at work the other day and my coworker was telling me her problems over lunch. She is getting sick of her boyfriend. She loves him, but she feels he wants to constantly be with her. She said she would rather he ws cheating on her then this. It kind made me think. I never meant to be like that with my ex. I mean I loved her and i wanted to spend as much time with her as she wanted to, but it was never my intent to make her feel that I NEEDED to spend all my time with her. I regret spending as much time as I did with actualy.
But on the other hand I had very few friends in the city at the time. So who else was I going to spend my time with. Though I do have my hobbies they are not exactly ones that I feel like doing after a hard day at work, nor ones I can really do in the city (ex: throwing knifes, hiking and such). The only hobbies I could do where play vedio games (which gets lame fast), and write (which is emotionaly draining, in a already emotionaly exrtranous time. ex, room mates issue then my whole ex thing). So what else was I to do? I guess I could have got into shape or something. But that tires you out and if you are already tired its kinda hard to drag yourself to do that.
Plus, what the hell? Women a generation ago, where complaining about not having "emotional" guys. Well they have them now, but it DOES come with a price. We want to spend our time with our girlfriends. So wtf! I am sorry but its impossable to have the best of both worlds. If that was the case, us guys would have girlfriends who love us, who want us, and who NEVER complain about their lifes and are always happy and wanting the physical side of a relationship, PLUS the emotional and spiritual side too. Who would let us pay for them when we want to pay for them. Who would not care weather we have a job or not just as long as we have enough to live on. Who would never NEED to go shopping for hours on end and feel the need to bring us. Who WOULD NOT have annoying friends and who we would find us super sexy and no one else even close. Well. THAT'S never going to happen, now is it. So why can't women just be satified with compromise?
We guys don't complian, in general, as much about relationship issues, other then not enough sex, as women. If that need is being met we can ignore or DEAL with all the rest. Why can't you women CHOOSE want it is you want of us men and stick with it?
I guess I am just frustrated, and needed to vent. Sorry about the long rant.
But on the other hand I had very few friends in the city at the time. So who else was I going to spend my time with. Though I do have my hobbies they are not exactly ones that I feel like doing after a hard day at work, nor ones I can really do in the city (ex: throwing knifes, hiking and such). The only hobbies I could do where play vedio games (which gets lame fast), and write (which is emotionaly draining, in a already emotionaly exrtranous time. ex, room mates issue then my whole ex thing). So what else was I to do? I guess I could have got into shape or something. But that tires you out and if you are already tired its kinda hard to drag yourself to do that.
Plus, what the hell? Women a generation ago, where complaining about not having "emotional" guys. Well they have them now, but it DOES come with a price. We want to spend our time with our girlfriends. So wtf! I am sorry but its impossable to have the best of both worlds. If that was the case, us guys would have girlfriends who love us, who want us, and who NEVER complain about their lifes and are always happy and wanting the physical side of a relationship, PLUS the emotional and spiritual side too. Who would let us pay for them when we want to pay for them. Who would not care weather we have a job or not just as long as we have enough to live on. Who would never NEED to go shopping for hours on end and feel the need to bring us. Who WOULD NOT have annoying friends and who we would find us super sexy and no one else even close. Well. THAT'S never going to happen, now is it. So why can't women just be satified with compromise?
We guys don't complian, in general, as much about relationship issues, other then not enough sex, as women. If that need is being met we can ignore or DEAL with all the rest. Why can't you women CHOOSE want it is you want of us men and stick with it?
I guess I am just frustrated, and needed to vent. Sorry about the long rant.
posted by Poetic_bum at 12:52 p.m.
2 Comments:
It's part of life. No matter what people do we can't seem to win. People generally have a tendancy to want what they don't have instead of working on appeciating what they do have.
thank you both... I just need to vent... As i have already said... But thanks none the less. I appertiate it.
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